French Kiss with Kevin Kline and What Women Want with Mel Ridiculous Gibson are both about the men, which is why I love them so so much, even though I can't really bring myself to watch Mel Gibson any more. What a Girl Wants is about Lizzy McGuire (or whomever), but also about Colin Firth and has lots of cool Jane Austen references all the way through. Notting Hill is about Hugh Grant's character more than Julia Roberts'.

But yeah, you're absolutely right most of the time. I'm just picking out my favorites because I KNOW they're my favorites because of the focus on the hero rather than the heroine.